What should be known before marrying someone?

What should be known before marrying someone?

A father's advice to a son about to get married.

Dad said, your grandfather said,

1. Do you know why the new wife is brought in a palanquin? He could have been brought in a bullock cart.

Instead, he was brought in a palanquin, to show how respected he was.

This honor cannot be reduced after being lowered into the palanquin. He should be kept in honor of Palki for the rest of his life.

2. How do you know the new wife in the palanquin?

cry why to cry

Not just for the relatives left behind.

He also cries in fear of how the new life will be.

You will try to make Palki cry so that it will be her last cry.

After that, he would cry on only two occasions.

One is the joy of becoming a mother, the other will cry after you are gone.

In the midst of grief, you will wipe his tears.

3. Wife suffers most from the husband's abuse,

Look, I'm very grumpy.

But no one can say that I ever spoke loudly in front of your mother.

4. Marriage means taking responsibility for another girl.

If you do not observe it properly, you have to be responsible to Allah.

5. Another thing, not all girls are good at cooking, but all of them try their best to cook well.

So never beat your wife with cooking.

6. Never call the wife's parents 'my father-in-law, my mother-in-law'.

I will call the parents.

No girl likes previous calls, if you call them, your wife will also call us by that name.

If you don't respect them, they won't respect us.

That's the rule.

Allah Ta'ala's scales are equal, whatever you do on one scale, He keeps the weight of the two scales in the same way on another scale.